I know the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. I’ve been involved in more relationships than most people and lots of them were decent and the women really did care about me.
My current girlfriend cares about me a lot and I have to keep reassuring her I’m not going to cheat on her. We’ve been together for a few years now and I’m happy with her.
Not I used to cheat on all of my girlfriends when things weren’t going well or I saw a chick I thought would be even more fun to be with. Funny thing is, most of them weren’t more fun and the same old hassles I had just left, soon popped up again.
I went through that process dozens of times and never got the point that no matter what the grass that looked greener was soon going to change to a dead brown color.
I wanted to escape all the problems so I’d soon have a new girl and the same crap would happen all over again. Lol, so, I’m a slow learner. 
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Anyway, I explained to my current girlfriend that I had finally learned that the little hassles and arguements we have are not worth finding a new woman and starting over. The added drama and pain just aren’t worth it, particularly when the same thing is going to happen ver and over again.
Getting out of a relationship is easy but the pain and the drama and the BS just aren’t worth it to change women and start over. I’ve finally learned to work on the ralationship I’m in rather than dump it and hope for a better one because the grass looks greener with a new chick.
No point in cheating if things aren’t going to get better permanently with the new woman. Lol, believe me, they aren’t. Work on the relationship you have now and you’ll be a lot happier than constantly looking for greener pastures.
It took me over 40 years to figure that out.
