My idea of a perfect relationship with my perfect woman

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When I first mentioned the secret I told you to check it out and then I decided to do what it said to make my life better. So the first thing I put up was my idea of the perfect woman and What I want in a woman or girl for a dating or lifetime relationship

The secret teaches that you should write down exactly what you want, in detail, as writing it is more powerful and makes it more real. Also to write it in the first person as if it exists already. So thats what I've done with this.

Try to remember this is my idea, mine, not yours, of the perfect relationship. I got some crap over the perfect woman thing so don't go all rabid on me if my idea of a perfect relationship isn't the same as yours.

Most of the things in here are parts of 5 different girls I went out with but I didn't realize that until I read it after I wrote it. Two of them will recognize themselves because the events are unique to us. Over all 4 of the 5 have children, one is tall, skinny, non blonde and white, one is the most petite chick I went out with and the other has the biggest ass.

The above was a self defense thing so I don't get jumped all over by all of them mistaking themselves for someone else. Lol, if you knew all of them you'd understand.

I did learn a couple of things writing all of this down tho. First was I really like to watch women go about their day naked or nearly naked. I knew that I just didn't know how much. A couple of them could be called close to being overweight and I loved watching them as much as the tiniest or most perfectly built. Everything from a size zero to a size ten tall. All the same but all different.

The other thing I learned is that writing in first person and in detail is very hard to do. It's to be written in first person to make it seem more real to your mind. Writing it is more powerful than imagining it. It took me a lot longer than I thought it would but it's pretty much done now.

Remember, this is my idea of the perfect woman in the perfect relationship with me.

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I am so happy and greatful now that I'm in a loving caring relationship. I always knew there was someone out there for me who met most of my requirements and who would undestand me.

My lovely lady is highly intelligent, quick, strong, independent and almost as sarcastic and sceptical as I am. She is absolutely beautiful with small breasts, a sweet ass and lovely long hair. She cares more about me than she does about things.

She is strong enough to stand up to me when I'm wrong but does it like an adult and explains it in terms I can understand. She laughs at me when I let my irritation show in my voice and then asks me to explain why I'm irritated or what the problem is.

Pretty Lady is my pet name for her. She has a lot of love, caring, concern and respect for me just as I have for her.

My Pretty Lady shows me in hundreds of different ways that she loves me and cares about me in all of the ways I crave and more. She is very kind, courteous and considerate of others and she loves animals. She is looking for a cat, trying to decide what kind of bird she wants and is looking at fish tanks.

She does like to shop but it's mostly window shopping as she's particular about what she wants and won't buy it if it's not exactly right. She's not intimidated by pricey Vegas designer botiques nor is she afraid to shop at Goodwill. She really likes it and gets very excited over finding exactly what she wants and gets it a bargain price. We've got plenty of money so she could buy whatever she wanted but she just loves a great bargain.

She looks hot, at least to me, in everything she wears and I let her know how much I like it. Some days she really gets off on flaunting how hot she is and I love it. She not afraid of getting dirty whether it's working or having fun. She loves going to the go cart track, driving fast and adrenaline rushes as much as I do.

Sometimes when she drives the Vette I worry about her but she drives as well or better than I do so I really shouldn't worry. I know that but I still worry about her because there are a lot of other dumbasses on the road. Funny, she worries about me too. We both love the Vette and I'm glad I had all the extra's done. The fact that I had the factory engine totally rebuilt to put out around 650 HP makes it just that much more fun.

That's all ya get for today, there will be more tomorrow.

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Second installment

It's so great that she loves to cuddle and play around when we are alone together. Hmm, I guess alone isn't right because she does it in public too. Just not at the same level of intimacy or intensity as in private.

I love it when we are out walking around our grounds or in public and she reaches for my hand or puts her arm around me. If I'm flirting to much she'll come over, put her arm around me, give me a kiss and ask me if I'm having fun. It's her nice respectful way to remind me that I'm hers, she's mine and it's also a way to let the chick I'm flirting with know that no matter how much I flirt it ain't gonna happen.

Not that anything would ever happen but sometimes chicks take my flirting seriously when my Pretty Lady knows it isn't serious to me in any way shape or form. I love and respect her to much to do that to her. I can look, tease and flirt but when I start getting close to what she considers disrespect she comes over. I like it that she does.

She's not as flirty as I am nor is she a tease, If guys try to hard my Pretty Lady lets them know that she is committed to me and isn't remotely interesed. She cuts guys off at the knees in a hearbeat if they say anything bad about me. Hey, I don't allow others to talk bad about my lady either. We are both loyal to each other.

We have our disagreements but we are both adult enough to be nice to each other and to listen to each other. We listen hard enough to hear what the other is saying. When we resolve it my way or her way neither of us views it as winning or losing but as making our relationship stronger because we now understand each other a bit more. We are best friends and know we can rely on the other person at all times. It's a really great feeling to know that and to have that.

There is one other thing that we are and that's equals. Neither one is dominant because we work on our relationship as a team. We both know we are much stronger as a team than as individuals. She leads when it's her territory and I lead in mine. We love each other to much to play all the dominance games we laugh at others for playing

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3rd Installment

Because I like it and she thinks it's cool, she'll walk around the house naked or just wearing a thong. I could watch her walk around that way forever. The way her soft small breasts move is almost as sexy as watching her hot ass sway from side to side. She has a great body and loves that I love to watch her.

When she really wants to get me turned on she'll put on a full length silk robe with slits that go to her waist. It's shiny, sexy, cool and smoothe and I love the way her great nipples stand up. Her breasts remind me a lot of a skinny Thandie Newtons when Thanide's laying down but my Pretty Ladies are like that when she's standing up. She thinks her breasts are to small and I think they are just perfect. When she's dressed I still see her naked in my head and try to sneak peaks in her blouse. She laughs at me when she catches me, but damn, she turns me on.

It's wonderful that she loves to have her breasts kissed and her nipples sucked. Sex with her is so awesome that it takes my breath away. I love to listen to her having orgasms, one after another, while I'm kissing and licking her in the best, wettest and warmest spots. It's a good thing that she likes it when I kiss her all over as it's my favorite thing. She's got the softest, sweetest most kissable lips and loves to have them kissed, so I kiss them frequently. Yeah, I know, it's a tough job but somebodys gotta do it.

We both love it when we fall asleep after sex with our arms and legs all tangled around each other. I could never fall asleep that way before but she taught me how and now I love that too. When we just cuddle at night she almost always tells me how safe and secure it makes her feel when I hold her. I like to hear that well enough that even if I didn't like to cuddle, I'd learn, just to hear it. It makes me feel good. She does that a lot of ways.

Even when we aren't together for the night she will call me when she gets into bed because she says the sound of my voice comforts her and she likes it to be the last thing she hears before she falls asleep. She calls me before she gets out of bed because she says she wants mine to be the first voice she hears before her day starts. I love it that she does that as it's another thing she does tha makes me feel great and love her even more. She'll call me another few times throughout the day or I'll call her.

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4th installment

She can be tougher than nails when she has to yet occassionally be as vulnerable as a small child. My Lady is almost always just plain sweeter than candy tho. She has kind of a bubbly personality without going overboard with it. I feel quite privileged to know that she trust me enough to show me her vulnerable side. It's another one of those things she does that makes me feel good and love her even more.

I trust her enough to let her see my vulnerable side too. Both of us usually come off as two of the most self confident people on earth so it would surprise others to know that either of have a vulnerable bone in our bodies. She is just a great person and I love her very much.

I trust her with more secrets I've ever trusted anyone. Neither of us cares about the past but only now and our future together. We both strive to make our future the best, most profitable and happiest we can make it.

Her dressing area and mirrors are on my side of the king size bed. I like to watch her after her shower when she puts lotion on. Her skin is the smoothest I've ever felt. I really get turned watching her. I can see her from the back and in the mirror at the same time. The way her body and muscles move fascinates me as much as watching her walk around.

Unless she's got it in Diva mode and getting her hair perfect to go out she'll eventually finish and then giggle and crawl into bed with me. If she doesn't want to mess up her hair she'll sit on the side of the bed and touch me.

If she's horny she will tell me she's going to take a shower and that's my cue to go to bed so I can watch her. If she wants it hard and fast she'll mess around in front of the mirror for hours until neither of us can take it anymore. The sex on those days doesn't last long but we both love leading up to it.

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5th installment

She takes great care of her skin, body and hair. She's beautiful without makeup but she always wears lip gloss and her fingernails and toes are always done. I let her know how much I appreciate her efforts and for everything she does for me.

Pretty Lady asked me to stop smoking by stating that even tho I didn't think it would help, by my theory, it would give us another six months together and she wanted that so I stopped. All it took was the right person to ask me. OTOH no one ever asked me to before, they just told me what I should do. Telling me or giving me orders just doesn't work but she was smart enough to ask and do it in a way that made me feel good, so, for her, I stopped.

We are both committed to using our money to help others and are very grateful to be fortunate enough to do it. It makes both of us feel good to see others succeed and know that we helped them get the boost they needed. It's a great feeling.

I still play around at my hobby on the net and Pretty Lady doesn't mind. She knows it's an outlet for my competitive nature. We travel a lot and sometimes just because we are hungry for something great we had at an out of the way place 1500 miles away.

As I said before, we are very much in love. She is the greatest woman I've ever met and I've never been happier in my life. She has made me care about living again. She stopped taking her birth control because she wants to have my child.

She loves my blue eyes and all she can talk about sometimes is how pretty our blue eyed little girl will be. It appears that after all of these years I'm going to willingly have a child. I love her so much and my life is so much better now than it's ever been before.

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6th installment

We talk to each other about everything and anything. We can take one subject and beat it to death for a day or two until we've reduced it to the almost absolute. We love to poke holes in each others logic and I usually get to be devils advocate in our debates.

Some days she's so damn quick she steals my lines before I get to say them. We know each other so well we can argue with the other in our own minds and know exactly what the other would say if they were there. We have both admitted to using the technique to strengthen our side when we know a debate or argument is coming. It does lead to some strange arguments tho.

It's really hard to have an argument when you've already had it in your mind and know all of the twists and traps the other can lay. You can see her counters to your logic and she can yours and we both do it on about six different paths. Frustrating on some levels and she cheats to win now and then.

She's also comfortable with silence. Both mine and hers. She doesn't feel she has to talk incessantly so I know she's there. We can talk for 10 minutes and not say another word for hours then pick up right where we left off.

Other times we can talk forever. Even to the point where we forget about sex because we are so into the discussion. The first night we spent together we had sex and it was really freaking great but in the morning we started talking and never stopped for nine hours. She missed her appointment and had to pay for another night in the hotel that she wasn't going to use.

We plaid a little and finally got up because we were still talking and both hungry. She cooked and talked and then she sat or laid on the couch and we talked the whole damn day away. We had so much in common neither of us could believe it. We talked everyday after that but didn't have sex again for a couple of weeks.

We have a lot of private little jokes, we finish each others sentences and a lot of times we don't even have to say the words, we just know. It's really great to be so connected to someone, the way we are.

It's a great relationship and now I want to live forever because I now have a future I look forward to. I'm very glad and grateful to her for making me feel this way.

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Lol, I still haven't found my perfect woman for my idea of the perfect relationship but I'm still looking. As I said someplace "ya gotta kiss a lotta toads before ya find a princess". Al long as I keep a positive attitude I know things will work out sooner or later.

Heh, now all I have to do is figure out how to teach my self patience. I tend to like to force the issue and get very impatient when forced to wait. It doesn't show on the outside but I have no patience at all, except with little kids.

3 things I've never been able to solve with my mind is my irritabilty, quitting smoking and lack of patience. Everything else, even to appearing to be very patient, I can do thru force of will. Irritates the hell out of me that I haven't ever been able to solve those three with my mind.

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Lol, I still have a shot at the kind of woman I'm looking for, Met an old guy of 68 a couple of days ago. Shabby clothes, older car, no teeth but he had a pertty 34yr old wife and twin daughters that were only a year old.

It's not impossible that's he's very rich and I know better than to judge by what people wear or drive or evn how they look but this guy sure gave me a lot of hope that I will find what I'm looking for in the next few years.

It's never to late would be the moral to that story. To bad I seldom drink anymore as that's where I used to meet most of the women I went out with. Now it's pure chance and I'm not to adept at picking up women at the grocery store or wal-mart.

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Sheesh, I ws watching 2 1/2 Men last week and Charlie Sheen was getting worn out by all the young babes he was partying with. He wanted to sleep and his girlfriend want to go out and play, at midnight. I knew exactly how he felt.

Actually it was quite funny until I relaized he and I had a lot in common. 20 somethings are a lot of fun to play with but really tough on the body and mind as a full time thing.

I know, I told one of them we had to make a doctors appt for both of us. We needed to get her some downers and me some pepper uppers so we'd match. Trying to keep up with her was really tough.

Charlie Sheen's brother, on the show, showed him how to solve the problem. A bar where older, 40's or so, people go. He got lucky there but I doubt if I ever find a bar like that I'll find Morgan Fairchild sitting there waiting for me to pick her up.

Ciest La Vie

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Hopefully you find this as amusing as I did. For a long time, 7 years or so, I've promoted a couple of dating places on the net. For most of them I was given a free account because I was promoting them.

Naturally I put a different profile on each one of them and changed a few things about myself. I've never actively looked for anyone on these places. Basically to much hassle and I'm not that desperate. I also don't come across well in emails or chats.

Imagine my shock and surprise yesterday when someone had actually responded to one of my profiles. Wow, it only took 7 years. So I went and read her profile. She seemed to be or to have everything I was looking for.

Funny, I didn't reply, yet. I expect I will just to see what happens. Her picture looks good, she's well educated and she's within 50 miles of my current location. Actually it kind of freaked me out after 7 years of nothing. I had no plan at all what to do if someone ever did contact me. Lol, still don't.

I would caution everyone about relying on their profile to get them dates from the net. Seems if you want someone, particularly if you are a guy, you are going to have to sign up for thier premium services and actually pursue the stuff.

I have a friened who uses these types of places and he tells me that for every 100 or so emails he sends the chicks who match his criteria he's lucky to get one response. Mostly you end up with a lot of spam for chicks doing nude webcams and other junk.

Basially doesn't seem to be worth the time and the effort and would seem to be a major waste of money. Personally I'd recommend you save your money.

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Lol, unfortunately this is not a cynical post. Could turn out that way tho.

It seems I've met my perfect woman. She is petite, beautiful, intelligent, quick, smart, fun, polite, small breasts, sexy and hot. Got a cute little butt too. She's also young. 27 I believe.

She runs her own business and does a great job at it. She's more outgoing than I am but that's a good thing. She's great, she flirts and she teases me, not sexually, just playing with words. I have a lot of respect for her and she has the same for me.

We like each other and we are friends too. I could see me spending the rest of my life with her however I doubt her unborn baby or husband would much care for it.

Damn, I'm doing good. I've met two women in the last 12 years that meet my standards. Dumped the first one, twice. Still ain't over her but I'll be damned if I contact her. Anyway, doesn't matter since I met this current lady I know there are more out there that do meet my standards.

Funny, really there have been 3 of them but the first one was 40 some odd years ago. I wonder what there is about all 3 of them that made or makes me want to be with them?

I've never wanted to have kids. Made it a condition of my first marriage and my second wife couldn't have any more kids. I didn't care. I've been involved with or friends with only 3 women in my life what I wanted to or would have children with.

Lol, to put it bluntly, evidently I don't think there are many women worthy of having my children.

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Hmmmm, naturally I met another candidate, uh. female for a potential relationship. This one scared me the first time I met her. Not as bad as one other chick did but still bad enough.

Might be it's her perfect little body that attracted me or her sweet smile. Maybe the sound of her voice. I don't know what it is but I feel a little emotion towards her. That always scares me when it happens before I even get to know someone.

All I know so far is her name, she's kinda pretty, great body, 45 yrs old, works and supports herself and what little we've talked so far she seems intelligent. BTW, she doesn't know I'm even remotely interested in her. Nor will she until she catches me.

I've kinda been hanging out with her cousin, not really involved with her cousin but we have been to bed together a few times. Still not a boyfrieend/girlfriend kinda thing if ya know what I mean. Found out Thursday that her cousin lies a lot so now I wonder what she's told her about me.

By lies a lot I mean stupid and uneccassry lies that can be found out just by talking to another person or five that were there. IOW why tell the truth when a lie will do even if it's not needed. Never quite understodd that behavior. Seems very self defeating to me.

However the chick I'm interested in told me her cousin does it all the time. It's just how she is. Lol, I hope, knowing that, she doesn't believe anything she hears about me.

I'm working my way up to her asking me to come and hang out or if she can come here. Lol, still afraid of her tho. I hate it when I want to get emotionally involved even before I know someone very well.