What I want in a woman or girl for a dating or lifetime relationship.

[TLA]

Lol, I was watching Letterman last night and Dana Owens was on. Now there is a chick that tuns me on for some reason. She's bigger than I usually like but I love her attitude and the way she carries herself.

While she might be bigger than what I like she is in damn good shape for a bigger woman. That I don't mind and never rule out. When I'm talking about overweight I mean a woman who has hanging fat or ankles so fat they drag on the ground.

Dana is a very funny woman, thinks quickly and is one hell of an actress. Don't have a clue who Dana Owens is. Go google her and be surprised.

[TLA]

Hmmm, the adventure begins. I replied to the lady who replied to my profile. Probably won't go anywhere as I come across so bad when I write. To blunt, don't flirt well in email and I know I ususally come across as highly arrogant.

So I tried really hard to be nice. That's probably a mistake too. Oh well, at least I know what I want and I'm trying. That's more than most of you know or do. I think I said this before, I'm good at the first part, the chasing and getting, after that I suck at the relationship part.

Now to see what happens, if anything. Maybe she won't answer. If not, no big deal. If she does it will be interesting. Heh, it will be almost like a blind date if we ever meet. Never had one of them before.

[TLA]

Lol, the last little adventure didn't work out to well. She was just plain to needy and to dumb. As a rule I let women chase me until I catch them but this one just met none of my requirements.

Tried to give me several things from her apt the first time I met her. Started talking about living together before I even knew if she could make decent coffee.  Argh, a litle smarts and a litle estraint are both good things.

Semi seeing two oher chicks both in their 40's. One wants all the priveleges of being a wife or a girlfiend without having to give up anything to get them. Heh, that might work on younger guys but she has nothing I want and for sure nothing I need.

She keeps trying to manipulate me with sex but she's not that great. She thinks shes "All That" and she ain't. Lol, wouldn't matter if she was. I've dumped chicks who were model pretty so you aren't likely to get me with your body or with sex. Lol, I got past that long ago.

The other one scares me somewhat. Sometimes you meet a person and you feel an emotional connection, sorta like love at first site but to a lesser degree. However I suspect she lied to me yesterday. either that or she got so drunk she couldn't remember what she did.

I'll verify that either way this morning. She told me somethings yesterday morning that "All That" contadicted later in the day. Either way, liar or got so drunk she couldn't remember, also disqualifies her.

Problem is I don't yet know who is lying. I can think of several reasons for "All That" to lie but none for the other chick to lie. It wasn't neccessary and she doesn't know I like her even a little bit so no reason for it at all.

Why either one of them would lie when they both know I can check with someone else I do trust and get the truth is beyond me. Never tell a lie when it can be verified so easily. It's not worth it, ever.

So it looks like I'm gonna go zero for three.

[TLA]

Well, I told ya. I finally found a girlfriend who suits me. She's pretty, smart, short, small boobs and she can keep up with my mind. I've known her since March and we have been living together for the last two months.

Things are going pretty well and it's likely we'll be together for some time to come. We get along well and we like each other. That's the important part. We liked each other and respected each other before we decided to move in together.

Now for the two of us to get the rest of the things I talked about. It's now our reality and we can have whatever we want in it, just as you can have whatever you want in yours. I have a map and a plan for my future and our future together. Do you have a plan for your future? Why not?